Christmas in pictures

Precious memories...

We're off to Buffalo, NY some time tomorrow for more celebrating with Chad's side of the family! Hoping we don't run into TOO much snow on the way there ... but hoping to build more precious memories there too.

Please pray

Yesterday I found out that a distant cousin of mine, Derek Loux, was killed in a car accident on December 23rd. He was a missionary in Kansas City, a Christian musician, and most importantly, a father of 10 children, 8 of whom are adopted (and some have special needs).

If you have a moment, please pray for their family. I can't imagine the sadness and grief they must be experiencing.

If you are interested in reading more, here are a few links:

http://www.kansascity.com/115/story/1649977.html

http://louxfamilyblog.com/2009/12/please-keep-our-family-in-prayer/

Thanks for your prayers.

Emmanuel, God with us

For to us a child is born,
to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
Wonderful Counselor,
Mighty God,
Everlasting Father,
Prince of Peace.

Isaiah 9:6

Things I would like to ask Mary

Today when I was listening to Christmas music, I heard this line from Mary Did You Know? -
"Mary did you know ... that when you kiss your little baby, you've kissed the face of God?"

The whole song has beautiful lyrics about what the small baby Jesus would one day become.

All deep and very meaningful.

However, there are a few things I would love to ask Mary, who bore and raised the Son of God.

First and foremost - Did Jesus always sleep through the night? or at least from a young age? :)

Did He every yell "NO!" in your face?

Did He have strange little habits, like spinning cars upside down or collecting all sorts of debris (not that I know anyone like this ...)?

Did you ever need to punish Him, or was He always obedient?

If He was always obedient, did his brothers and sisters dislike Him or call Him Mr. Goody Two-shoes?

What was it like to have a kid who always thought He was right, and actually was?

I know some of them are silly, but it does make you wonder... was Jesus a "normal" baby/toddler/child, or was He just naturally good in a way that our human children are not?

Just wondering.

Trust and thankfulness

This morning when I woke up, I started praying. I don't even think I was fully awake. It had been a long night. Chloe has a yucky cold and was waking up stuffy or snotty on a fairly regular basis throughout the night. Ugh. I knew I was going to need some extra strength, energy, patience, coffee, etc this morning. I was reminded in those brief quiet moments of something I read a while back about trust and thankfulness. So I tried to focus on those two things.

As I became more conscious, I noticed it was kind of cold. Then I heard Chad clunking around going up and down the stairs between our thermostat and furnace. Uh-oh. Our furnace is original to the house .... so that makes it about 26 years old. It could bite the dust any day, but so far it just keeps ticking away. I got up and looked at the thermostat. It said 58 degrees, although it was set to 67. Hmm. I immediately started feeling a bit panicky. How would we pay for a new furnace? What was I going to do with the kids to stay warm? If we need a new furnace, when would they be able to install it? Why do these things always happen at the most inconvenient times, ie right before Christmas?? Then those two words came back to my mind: trust and thankfulness.

I wish I could say differently, but it was very hard to focus on those things. As I made coffee, I said "God, I'm trying here. I want to trust and be thankful, but it is hard. Please take care of us."

Within an hour, a technician showed up. The problem ended up being very simple. It was fixed, we had our furnace cleaned while the technician was here, and I became quite thankful for the whooshing sound of heat coming through the ductwork of our home. I was extremely thankful that we did NOT need to scrape together the money to buy a new furnace.

I write this to give God the glory here. I am so weak many days and easily give into fear, worry, etc. when I really just need to trust God. Easy to say, but not so easy to do when you are faced with a difficult situation. This really was not even what I would term "difficult" but still, not what I wanted to wake up to this morning. But the reality is - even if the furnace was kaput, He would take care of us. Even if our house burned down, He would still provide. I have so much to be thankful for, and here I was focusing on the one thing going wrong, and feeling sorry for myself. I am thankful that when we know God, He speaks to our hearts and reminds us of truth. And the truth is - God promises to walk with us through every circumstance, and I need to continue to trust and be thankful.

As I went to write this, I decided to look up what I had read about trust and thankfulness. It was in a book called Jesus Calling - it's kind of unique in that it has daily readings that are written as if God was talking to you Himself. Here it is (partially):

"Trust and thankfulness will get you safely through the day. Trust protects you from worrying and obsessing. Thankfulness keeps you from criticizing and complaining, those sister sins that so easily entangle you. Keeping your eyes on Me is the same thing as trusting Me. It is a free choice that you must make thousands of times daily. The more you choose to trust Me, the easier it becomes ..."

I like the part that reminds us that we make a choice. We cannot control our circumstances, but we can CHOOSE how we react to them. We can choose to trust, and as we do, trusting becomes easier. Wow.

Hope those words encourage you as they do me.

All this from a non-busted furnace. :)

let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!

We have about a foot of snow here in Phoenixville. I know, because Chad went out and measured. Yes, he is a scientist. :) It came down all day yesterday and of course the kids were out playing while Chad shoveled the driveway (he had to shovel twice ...) I stayed in where it was warm and kept Chloe occupied. :) And took a few pictures!

Snowball fight!

"Mowing" the snow

Watching the plow go by. So fascinating to a 2 year old boy!

Every time I looked at Carter he was eating the snow.

Time for snow angels

We ended the afternoon with a neighborhood party at Kelly & Norm's house. Santa made an appearance to deliver some goody bags! I love the kids' faces when Santa shows up. The kids then played Secret Santa and gave their gifts to each other. (The kids draw names and then pick out a book for the child they picked.) It was a fun time!! The kids love doing this every year.

Chad & Audrey also made our gingerbread house. I love that Chad enjoys doing this. He gets really creative ... it was his idea to make a Santa popping out of the chimney!

Today church was canceled so I'm sure that we will continue with more playing in the snow. I think we'll also make some Christmas cookies, watch a movie with popcorn, and have a big breakfast for DINNER! I love when snow days fall on the weekend and we're all home to enjoy it together ... especially the week before Christmas!

Five months old

Five months. Where does the time go?

It's been a busy month full of firsts ...

1st Thanksgiving (sitting on Uncle Andy's lap)

1st solid food (we've now sampled cereal and pears ...)

1st Christmas jammies

1st time to stare in awe at the Christmas tree

I'm sure there are a number of other firsts that I am neglecting right now. :)

Some people have asked me about how the sleep is going. Apparently I have been doing some complaining about my lack of it .... and I just fear that as soon as I say it's going better I'm going to jinx it, and it will get bad again. Totally irrational, I know. :)

The short answer is, it is getting better. I am still getting up for a feeding once a night, which I am fine with at this point. The problem before was that Chloe was eating, then staying up for quite a while -- talking, playing, fussing, spitting up -- you name it, she was doing it rather than sleeping. And it was keeping me up too! She was also cutting her first two teeth and that certainly didn't help.

I changed a few things and it has helped. I think one of the main differences is that I have turned off the night light. It is now completely pitch black when I put her to bed and this seems to help. I feed her, put her back to bed, she lays there and talks for a couple minutes, then goes to sleep.

I just want to clarify that Chloe is really a good sleeper overall. She naps on a regular schedule, and she puts herself to sleep each time. I lay her down, pop in her pacifier, put a blanket on her, and walk out. That's it. And she goes to sleep.

Just feeling guilty about my bellyaching :) But really, I was exhausted there for awhile ...

... but it's all totally worth it.